约翰·迈耶开辟了关于他的爱情生活:“我当然想结婚”

约翰·迈耶提供了一窥他的爱情生活最近播出的一集里的“打电话给她爸爸“播客。12月20日“重力”歌手坐下来和亚历克斯·库珀卸下他浪漫的过去、现在和未来,以及他的焦虑和清醒的影响。

尽管公众的迷恋他的恋爱史他爱好女色的名声,梅耶尔,目前单身,是谁透露,他总是寻找一个承诺,长期合作伙伴关系。“每一个关系,我曾经一直致力于这可以距离的想法,”他说。“这是冲击人们的一部分:我当然想结婚。”Though his past relationships didn't reach that level, the musician said he's gained insight into himself and his future life partner in the process.

梅耶尔也打开了他的冷静是如何影响约会,让他更加脆弱和“突出诚实。”"I quit drinking like six years ago, so I don't have the liquid courage," he said. "I just have dry courage. You have to express yourself." He continued, "You have to express your anxieties. You can't just walk over them by drinking. You have to be like, 'This is what I'm anxious about,' and when someone in life accommodates your anxiety, that's bonding. I don't think I'm truly connected with someone until I freak out a little bit and they go, 'It's OK.'"

Mayer扩大他的焦虑影响他的浪漫体验。“[有]你过恐慌症约会吗?这就是你与某人,”他笑着对库珀说。”在很长一段时间里,我会拒绝跟任何人出去,因为它会让我很紧张,”他解释说,反思这一事实是他早期的音乐在焦虑,希望能找到爱,尽管它。

尽管有一个更好的处理焦虑现在,他将更容易的和透明的信息复杂的感情在这个时代,梅耶尔说他还有很长的路要去自己关系最好的版本。“我还没有真正有关系的一部分,是“一帆风顺”部分,”他说。“我有一种感觉,当我做的,我将有很多的工作,但我会兴奋的工作。

寻找合适的合作伙伴,梅耶尔是这样做在自己的条件。“你不会看到我的电池与不同的人约会,”他解释道。“我是一个口袋清单。”He added that he doesn't really date anymore, explaining that dating is "no longer a codified activity" for him.