艾丽西亚Mccarvell在海滩上的文章感觉悲伤
TikTok的艾丽西亚Mccarvell,感觉悲伤在海滩”是成功的标志
艾丽西亚Mccarvell多年来一直避免海滩。但现在,流行TikTok创造者自爱和接受的旅程,她的回顾她剥夺了什么,她说,带来的一波又一波的悲伤。在一个强大的Instagram发布,Mccarvell共享的一系列照片最近的海滩的一天与她的丈夫斯科特。“我很自豪我的旅程,我已经走了多远,但我将会对你撒谎,如果我告诉你它没有悲伤,”她写道。“我经历这悲伤每次我做一些我自己从几年前回来。”
在她的文章里,Mccarvell详细的美好的一天被水包围,自然,和她的搭档的15年。但她也承认没有愈合过程是线性的,和它有许多的情感。在所有的美丽,Mccarvell说,“我是悲伤的。”
“每次我拍照,没有思维结果的两倍,我悲伤的生活,我没有。每次我踩到一个海滩和入水,我伤心我花了错过,”Mccarvell写道。“对我来说我有快乐,悲伤,我所有的年我允许自己活不下去。”
Mccarvell也反映在一个对话,那是她与她的丈夫,几乎让她“哭吧。”When she asked Scott how he felt about never going to the beach previously, he said, "I'm your partner, I'm never supposed to make you do things you aren't comfortable with." We've always appreciated their loving relationship, but their unwavering support for each other during these important moments is admirable.
她结束后用一个令人鼓舞的消息是如何这些情绪都是过程的一部分。“请知道你学会生活,当你单独的从你的身体和你的价值你开始让自己快乐,悲伤会,这是一个成功的标志。”We're grateful to Mccarvell for sharing all the sides that come with self-love and healing.
@aliciamccarvell
上周末我和斯科特在海滩上,我当我们游泳之后,感受到了一股强大的悲伤。我很自豪我的旅程,我已经走了多远,但我将会对你撒谎,如果我告诉你它没来与悲伤。我经历这种悲痛每次做一些我自己从几年前举行。我们,卡博特的周围,一个美好的一天,空气清新的水浸泡的,而快乐和幸福,我悲伤。我看着斯科特和我说“你怎么与当时从不去海边好”他看着我,说“我是你的合作伙伴,我不应该让你做的事情你不满意“,我可以哭。每次我体验快乐,我知道我自己剥夺了过去,我伤心一年我失去了不这样做。每次我拍照,不考虑结果的两倍,我悲伤的生活,我没有。每次我踩沙滩,到水里我悲伤的年我花了错过。我谈论移动过去,我的生活充实,但我不谈论的悲伤。通常我们体验快乐和悲伤时我们失去它,但对我来说我有快乐,悲伤的一年我没有它我允许自己生活。 Like any other grief, it is accompanied by what ifs and how comes I’ll never get the answers to. Like any other grief, it comes with an overwhelming sadness, even when completely surrounded by joy. Like any other grief, it lingers, even when you think you’ve done your healing. I grieve because I now know what I was missing. I grieve because I could have been a better friend, a better partner, a better sister. I grieve because my life could have been fuller. I grieve because I know I’ll never get that time back. I grieve because it’s part of the process. Please know that as you learn to live your life for you, as you separate your worth from your body and as you start to allow yourself joy - grief will be there and it is a sign of success.
原始声音——艾丽西亚Mccarvell♬
