“亲爱的约翰”并不是唯一的泰勒•斯威夫特的歌球迷认为她写了约翰·迈耶

“亲爱的约翰”是大胆迅速与梅耶尔的关系。虽然斯威夫特(通常用一堆性别歧视)以燃烧费用在她的音乐,“亲爱的约翰”从2010年的“说话”实际上是唯一的歌,名字前男友的标题。斯威夫特的愤怒和悲伤是明确的歌词。她唱合唱,“亲爱的约翰,我现在看到这一切,你走了/你不觉得我太年轻了?/女孩的衣服,哭了整个回家的路上,我早该知道的。”She also accuses him of treating her like a chess piece in a game in which he "changed the rules every day."

斯威夫特写的在她的网站上歌唱,“这首歌“绝交”有点像过去的邮件你会送给别人,你曾经是在一个关系。通常人们发泄最后写这邮件的人,他们说他们想说的一切人,然后他们通常不把它。我想把这首歌的专辑我推派。”

意料之中的是,梅耶尔没有升值轨道。他告诉《滚石》杂志2012年,“这让我感觉糟透了。因为我不应得的。现在我很擅长采取问责,我从来没有任何值得。这是一个很糟糕的让她做的事情。”He said Swift never reached out about the song, explaining, "I never got an e-mail. I never got a phone call. I was really caught off-guard, and it really humiliated me at a time when I'd already been dressed down. I mean, how would you feel if, at the lowest you've ever been, someone kicked you even lower?" When Rolling Stone asked about the line "Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?" he would not comment on it. He also called it, "Cheap songwriting."

但在某种程度上,迅速预测这种反应。在这首歌她唱的,“你会把我的名字添加到你的长串叛徒谁不明白。”And when Swift was asked about the song — and Mayer's reaction to it — in a 2012 interview with魅力,她叫他“放肆”,并表示她不想知道他的言论的细节。“我知道这不是很好,所以我不想知道,”她解释道。“我把高优先级保持快乐,我知道我不能处理的。”

斯威夫特的“我们的故事,”另一个“说话”的歌,就是跑到跟前女友在一个事件和担心,你不是在一起了。“现在我独自站在一个拥挤的房间里,我们不是说/我想知道的是它杀死你喜欢它杀死我吗?”她唱。班轮笔记这首歌是“CMT颁奖典礼”——因为2011年,斯威夫特和Mayer出席了颁奖典礼和坐在靠近彼此。

早在2010年,迅速在她的网站上写道关于这首歌,“我只是前言说我最近碰巧在陌生的地方遇到费用。这是一个陌生的地方,我遇到的情况下他是一个颁奖礼。”

她继续说道,“我坐在座位离他还有那么多需要说,我们没有一个愿意说出来。我们都像我们从事与人交谈,我们甚至不知道。这只是痛苦。我告诉我的妈妈后,我说我觉得我独自站在一个拥挤的房间里。然后我就像,“要走了。再见!和我妈妈使用,在这一点上,这就是这首歌。”

“超人”是一个轨道的豪华版“说了。”In the song, Swift imagines herself as the love interest of Superman, always stuck at home while he jets around the world. At first, that doesn't seem like Mayer, since Superman's reputation is always squeaky clean. But in the second verse, she describes this Superman even more, saying, "He's complicated, he's irrational" and "Something in his deep brown eyes has me singing / He's not all bad like his reputation." All this has led some fans to believe the song is about Mayer.

如果迈耶认为“绝交”太多,他肯定不喜欢”就可以,应该。”In the track, off of 2022's "Midnights," Swift revisits their relationship again with the hindsight of the 13 years she's grown since it occurred, and she's even angrier about it than she was the first time.

有什么线索,让我们知道这是梅尔呢?斯威夫特说她19岁当事件发生时,唱歌,“我已经在我的膝盖,我妈肯定不会与魔鬼跳舞/ 19岁。”She also addresses the idea that she tainted him by association (and through her songs), singing, "If I was some paint, did it splatter / On a promising grown man?"

但清晰的在这首歌的是他们在一起的时间迅速多年来一直遵循着。在这首歌她写道,“如果清晰的死亡,那么为什么不会死?/年的拆除我们的横幅,你和i /生活击中你的兴奋,这很伤我的心。/给我回我的少女时代,这是我的第一次。”