3你需要打破了糖迹象

你有没有关系,你显然是投资比粉碎吗?你着迷,你渴望,你试过最难扮酷时调用。不时地,它很好。不过,主要是你的暗恋只会让你对自己感觉不好。听起来是不是很熟悉?你开车穿过市中心最好的蛋糕,你发布一个崇拜你的照片Instagram特殊时刻在一起,和你享受治疗满足感和兴奋。你给你最好的,蛋糕。但然后呢?它返回你的感情,或者你感觉惭愧,恶心,理所当然?和最糟糕的部分——你第二天再回去,希望会有所不同吗? Do you obsess about it, convincing yourself that surely there's some way you can make it work? You want so badly to have your cake and eat it too (literally), but just like that crush who continues to brush you off, that cupcake isn't invested in your well-being. You deserve better. Sure, kale doesn't make your heart skip a beat the same way in the beginning, but it also doesn't leave you feeling worse about yourself after you hook up. Think about it.

一个明智的女人一旦宣扬做任何事情都要适度,你在船上。所以你发誓要拯救的东西在特殊的场合,你的朋友的生日聚会或周日早午餐,例如。但是糖做什么呢?它尊重你,还是还乞求深夜惹的祸,即使你宣布你不是生命吗?你发现自己吃Ben & Jerry ' s纸箱穿着睡衣,最后打了一整天都诱惑着地面后吗?我想我们都知道答案。

你de-sugared储藏室。你宣布你的午餐伙伴,如果她看到你订购一个cookie应该拍的你的手。你已经健康的誓言,把糖放在它的位置。但这里的糖:它不能被信任。它突然出现在休息室或者它像喝醉了聚会的破坏者通过百乐餐在不知不觉中进入你的房子。如果你给一点——一个美味的咬它永远不会让你活下来。它不应该是任何意外,糖比毒品更容易上瘾,如果你是一个孩子的“80年代的像我一样,你知道战胜物质上瘾的唯一途径是“说不”。糖intrinsically senses that if you break your vows even once, you'll do it again. One minute you'll be riding your sugar high and feeling great, but you'll inevitably crash and be tempted to start the ride all over again. You can't simply玩极难;你必须是ungettable。保持强劲,妹妹。

分手是很难做到的。即使在糟糕的男朋友是一个花生酱、巧克力曲奇饼干。但如果不爱你,不尊重你的边界,并不能被信任,是时候打破。有很多,健康的鱼在大海。