汤米·多尔夫曼是一个神秘的女人:“恋爱是那么可怕”

汤米·多尔夫曼是一个未婚妻!的“13”的原因演员打破了订婚的消息瑞秋·比尔森的“广泛的想法”播客8月15日发布,她也说过预订上述Netflix系列推迟她的转变。当谈到管理雌激素,多尔夫曼不经意地提到她的“未婚妻”帮助她走她的整个过程。虽然她没有透露她的伴侣的身份,她提到她的人她想度过她的余生。

多尔夫曼,他最近庆祝她30岁生日、共享她的伴侣是“第一个[她]的女人,在很长一段时间。”"It's affirming, it's safe," she said of her relationship. "But also not safe because being in love is so scary. So uncomfortable and so painful. All the universal feelings of being in love I feel that are probably the same." She explained that while she knew she was interested in women since high school, she hadn't really explored those feelings. Prior to meeting her current partner, she told herself, "This is the year that I'm gonna go on some dates with girls and feel that out again and not feel ashamed about it."

演员还透露她最初“真的不敢承认”是吸引女性因为她描述她是安全的,强大的与所有的女人的关系她生命中曾看到她作为一名同性恋者。“当我坠入爱河——直cis女性占我最亲密的朋友,和我最担心的是那些人,那些人关心。”

多尔夫曼曾嫁给彼得Zurkuhlen五年,直到他们2022年2月提出离婚。这两个据说在2005年第一次见到通过一个共同的朋友,11年后,他们在波特兰喜结连理,我。她谈到她的婚姻在播客,解释之前重新自己作为一个女人”,她做出的决定不符合[她]究竟是谁。”She said, "I probably got married for the first time, now that I'm reflecting on it, for safety because it felt just like a safe, secure space that I could carve out for myself in a world that was ever-changing."